Saved by Spring!

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Three months later and half the time I still find myself going to fill Kiera’s food bowl… I’ve had enough human and animal loss in my life to know that there’s nothing that can be done except to wait out the sadness.

The last few weeks, I’ve been busy planting my vegetable gardens, and pruning my grape vines and fruit trees. The thing I love most about Spring and gardening is always the renewed hope and excitement I feel at getting to watch what I plant grow. So imagine my delight, when I went to check for signs of fruiting and spied this!

cherry tree

For the first time… CHERRIES !!!!!

Maybe There’s Hope After All

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Cait’s schoolwork load is insane this year. When she expressed discouragement to a friend, this is the video he sent back to her. I know many people worry about the quality of this younger generation coming up the ranks. But if this is some of the stuff kids are sharing, maybe we don’t need to be so worried after all…

It’s the Simple Things…

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I always find it interesting to see what Christmas presents wind up really sticking after the initial oohs and ahhs of unwrapping fade away.

Seems the ones that do it for me are always a combination of function and form. Something of utility that is beautiful to look at or just beautifully designed. Like these.

This is a little “Secret” Box– just 2″x3.” Great for stashing tiny treasures.

Secret-Box

The lid is “hidden” in the top of the box and slides open like so.

box2

And this tote… well, this is self-explanatory. : )

Carpenter BadWhat turned out to be your most favorite gifts?

Great Idea for How to Find a Lost Dog

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If you’ve had animals your entire life, you’ve probably had the experience of frantically searching for a lost pet somewhere along the line. And you also know how truly heart-wrenching and helpless it makes you feel. Well here’s a tip that can literally be a life saver in helping you find any lost pet.

Recently, talking with one of my more orginal-thinker dog friends, she shared this tip for how she’s found her and some of her friends’ missing animals. Continue reading

Syncronicity and Emergency Vets

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It’s been an eventful and interesting day, starting at 3:30 a.m. this morning…

…with a pit stop at the emergency vet’s, along the way.

Kiera had a little issue that was easily resolved, and all’s well that ends well on that front.

That’s by way of saying that if you don’t know where your nearest emergency vet facility is, you should find out now.

My day was made a lot more manageable by knowing exactly where our emergency clinic was located, and feeling comfortable that it was staffed with people I respected and trusted. So that when there was an emergency, I knew exactly how long it would take me to get there, and I could call ahead and alert them to be ready for my arrival. Continue reading

Silver Linings and Thanksgiving

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Home Office Hangout

I learned a long time ago that, when I’m paying attention, I can always find a silver lining in the most difficult of circumstances.

The silver lining in Kiera not fully recovering from Vestibular Disease is that it has given me the push I needed to decide to work from home rather than going into the office every day.

As I’ve watched Kiera’s age finally catch up to her big time, I’ve been feeling that I don’t want to be robbed of a minute of the time I have left with her. But in our human-centric world, to admit that I wanted to put my dog before work would be considered odd, if not downright bordering on blasphemous. Continue reading

Best “People Training” Book

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People who love their dogs are used to reading dog training books to help their dogs achieve their full potential so they may live with their family in the most enjoyable way for all parties concerned. And I’ve recommended many of those books over the years, as I’ve discovered new favorite ones.

Leadership and Self DeceptionI had a friend turn me on to what I would describe as one of the more enlightening “people training” books I’ve read in a long time. While I don’t necessarily love the simplistic writing style the author uses to convey his ideas (narrative parable), I absolutely think the concepts explained could solve 90% of the world’s problems. Truly.

If you do read this book, I’m sure you’ll be recommending it to everyone you know as well. Its subject matter is that clarifying.

What gem have you read that you’d recommend to all your friends?

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In web design, the debate rages over scrolling vs. clicking. As usual, I fall squarely in the middle. You’ll find that any longish post now has a “Continue reading →” link that, when clicked, expands the rest of the post in accordion fashion right within the post. You won’t need to  click to open a new page to read posts that interest you, nor will you need to get a cramp in your finger from lots of scrolling.

What’s your preference? Scrolling, or accordion expansion? Please weigh in and let me know if you prefer this over full posts.

For my blogger buds, if you like this feature and want it for your blog, the plugin is “Read More Right Here.

I Understand…

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I’ve never been one to turn away from the raw and real, and nitty gritty about life. I don’t seek it out, but if it comes looking for me, I’ve tried to equip myself to the best of my ability to meet it. Hence my training as an EMT, my training in psychology, and my involvement with dog training and rescue. I figure that pretty much covers most of the bases.

As life often has a tendency to bunch up, I’m in a period where life at its rawest has been piling up on my doorstep. Friends dying, family health issues, aging animals–along with many people I know being faced with emotionally wrenching decisions. The phone has been busy…

Two calls last week were from opposite sides of the same coin of a very tough decision. Continue reading

Formula for a Happy and Lasting Marriage

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We went to our niece’s wedding this weekend. The weather was perfect, pretty much the whole family was able to attend, which was fun, and the event went off without a hitch. It was a happy day. On the long drive back home, I was thinking about something that was said in the wedding ceremony. I believe it’s the secret to success for a long and happy marriage.

“The key to a good marriage requires three components: Find a mate who is your best friend, trusted partner, and true love.”

I think that pretty much sums it up. How ’bout you?

The Best Presents…

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The presents I love most always come free and unattached to any Hallmark holiday. This little gift of peonies  are fresh cut from my garden and the smell is heavenly. Which is interesting. Because I’m allergic to perfume. But not to the incredible scent of these beauties. But this bouquet is especially special to me because it carries a secret message.

peonies in vase

Did you spot it?


Cait is always leaving me little notes expressing her love for me. I’ll often sit down to my computer to open up some work only to find a short (and always colorful) love note from her. Or a quick text message. Or a paper stuck in the  ever growing pile on my desk. They always blast my heart wide open.

But this little treasure that greeted me as I sat down to have my first cup of coffe couldn’t be more perfect in its simplicity and delivery.

I hope you, too, have someone in your life who regularly reminds you of how much you are loved.

Tis the Season for Fact Checking and Tighter Spam Filters

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I have to say, I’m not fond of election years. There’s enough political mud-slinging, lies, and outright disinformation to fill the Grand Canyon, with enough left over to fill the Mariana Trench. (I wish I could say I meant that as hyperbole…)

I’m especially not fond of the onslaught of forwarded blast emails by concerned citizens (typically originating from political shills) sharing “vital” information that those of us with lesser brains need to be made aware.

To help you sift and sort through the miasma, here is a listing of some of my favorite legitimate fact-checking sites. I’ve excerpted descriptions of each site from the article, Internet research for the careful citizen by Kathleen Atkins. This way, when you are the recipient of concerned friends forwarding blast emails without first checking the veracity of the content, now you can get to the bottom of it for yourself! Happy Truth Hunting! And don’t forget to vote at every opportunity– read Seth Godin’s interesting take on why it matters now more than ever.

Respected fact-checking Sites and sources:

If the topic giving you a headache or heartburn is a public-affairs controversy, three of the most respected fact-checking resources are FactCheck.org, The Fact Checker (Washington Post), and PolitiFact.com. All three use a similar format: they present the original text and then compare what was said to the known facts.

FactCheck.org is a project of the Annenberg Public Policy Center at the University of Pennsylvania. It’s billed as a nonpartisan, nonprofit organization that verifies or debunks statements by and about politicians in speeches, ads, press releases, debates, interviews, and mass e-mailings. The organization publishes its findings on its website and also distributes material via podcast. FactCheck.org discloses its own funding sources on its site. Its archives go back to 2003.

The Fact Checker is a widely read column and blog by respected Washington Post reporter Glenn Kessler. He rates the veracity of political statements in a five-level range. (Kessler assigns four Pinocchios for whoppers and a Gepetto to those rare statements that are completely true.) Although his assessments have been criticized by partisans from both left and right, he’s generally considered an evenhanded evaluator. The Fact Checker website archives go back to September 2007.

The PolitiFact website is owned and operated by the Tampa Bay Times. It publishes the Truth-O-Meter rating system, in which a true statement is identified as True and a bold, complete lie is rated Pants on Fire (from the taunt “Liar, liar, pants on fire”). The system allows for degrees of truth in between. Political commentators across the entire ideological spectrum have disputed PolitiFact’s evaluations, but the website’s judgments are widely quoted.

Snopes: Against the whole wide world of untruths

Snopes, with its official title, “Urban Legends Reference Pages,” speaks to the range of its interest. The Snopes researchers don’t hesitate to take on politics, but they also identify urban legends, folklore, myths, rumors, frauds, and scams in subject categories ranging from autos to weddings. The site gets about 300,000 daily visits, and evidence compiled by Snopes researchers is widely cited in broadcast and print news.

The site evaluates videos, photographs, and other artifacts in addition to stories of questionable veracity; it invites posts to its message board and rumor submissions to its comments section. Snopes is such a widely respected debunker of falsehood that some scam artists attempt to deflect investigation by falsely asserting their claims have passed a Snopes truth test.

Encyclopedic knowledge: Free on the Web

For more home-grown research, a good starting point is Wikipedia, which is subject to constant scrutiny by other organizations across the enormous breadth of its subject areas. These days, the consensus is that Wikipedia is a generally reliable first stop when you’re beginning research on a new topic.

A Fresh Perspective…

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As the saying goes, A little perspective, like a little humor, goes a long way.  I figure, in these crazy times, we could all use a little perspective. Here’s a fresh perspective for you all the way out t0 1027 power. Click on the image, then click on the Start button, and then move the slider if you want to be amazed! Yeah, I know–you know I’m a sucker for these things! : )

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