Dog Aggression May Be Caused By Aggressive Treatment by Owners, New Study Finds

Having lived with and loved a rescue dog who came to me with aggression problems, and having been around the block with various training philosophies to find one that worked,  I’m happy to see that progress is being made in the understanding of what actually helps and what hurts.  While I know there are many Cesar Milan fans out there, research is beginning to discover what many good trainers have known for a long time — traditional punitive training can have some serious drawbacks. Read on and decide for yourself.

by Sheila Dichoso Medill Reports – Chicago, Northwestern University
March 18, 2009

University of Pennsylvania veterinary researchers found that pet owners who used aggressive methods to treat their dogs’ behavior problems may be aggravating the problem instead of alleviating it.

The new study, published in the February issue of Applied Animal Behaviour Science, found that pet owners using confrontational, punishment-based techniques on their dogs were getting more aggressive responses from their dogs compared to owners who used positive-reinforcement techniques.

“By far the most common behavior problem we treat in dogs is aggression,” said veterinarian Meghan Herron, lead author of the study.

Although many veterinarians and dog trainers may not find the results surprising, the public is largely unaware of the ramifications of using confrontational training methods.

Herron said it was interesting that several confrontational methods, such as the “alpha roll” and hitting or yelling “no” at their dogs, elicited an aggressive response in more than a quarter of the dogs, according to the pet owners that were surveyed.

The alpha roll is a training technique in which the dog flips over on its back and is held in that position, usually by the throat. This has been traditionally thought to teach the dog that the trainer is the pack leader, or “alpha dog.” Herron said this aggressive technique, along with growling at the dog, staring down the dog or forcing the release of an item in a dog’s mouth by putting pressure on their gums with fingers are more likely to have the adverse effect them, or may not even help them at all.

Most of these confrontational or punishment-based methods are fear-eliciting, and the primary motivating factor for dog aggression to humans is fear, Herron said.

“[Confrontational and punishment techniques] may mask the aggression, but it doesn’t change the way the dog perceives what it is aggressing towards,” added Rendy Schwartz, owner and head dog trainer at Anything Is Pawsible in Noble Square.

Penn’s School of Veterinary Medicine in Philadelphia collected 140 surveys with dog owners who made appointments at the school. It asked how they previously treated their dog’s aggression, what kind of response they received back and where they learned the training technique. It was done over a one year period and analyzed dogs that displayed all types of aggression, including separation anxiety and thunderstorm fear. They also found that dogs who exhibited aggression toward strangers were more likely to respond aggressively to the “alpha roll.”
Another possible way dogs can develop aggressive behavior is through games, such as tug-of-war.

“Tug-of-war is a great energy outlet for many dogs when played correctly,” Herron said. But when not played correctly, it can elicit aggressive behavior.

“Any contact with the dog’s mouth on people’s hands instantly ends the game,” she said. “When the game is over, the toy should be put away and tug should not be played with any other item in the household. This keeps the game very structured and prevents tug-eliciting behavior with other items, such as bedding or clothing.”

“We encourage owners not to engage in any rough play that involves hands, feet or other body parts, but rather to engage in play and exercise in a more structured fashion,” Herron said.

Schwartz likened treating dogs to how a parent would treat their children. “If you lead a child with a heavy hand, or through force, you can see these children act out in aggressive ways as well,” she said.

Herron recommends using positive reinforcement techniques, such using food. She also suggested owners should be calm, predictable and consistent when training their dog.

The study’s goal was to see if confrontational training methods led to aggressive responses compared with other training methods.

But preventing aggression in dogs is a lot easier than treating it. While most dogs have the capacity to rehabilitate, “it takes time and massive amounts of dedication and vigilance to help severe cases,” Schwartz said.

Herron said she hopes the study emphasizes the fact that using confrontational-based techniques will increase the risk of harm to dog owners and dogs, that are in turn relinquished or euthanized as a result.

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Seeking “Smart Dog” Stories

Hey guys, want to make your smart dog famous?  I’m writing a book that will include stories about how dogs demonstrate their intelligence. I’d like to include a story about your Doggy Einstein if you’ve got a good one.

If you think for a moment, I’ll bet you can recall several stories.

To help jog your memory:

Has your dog ever demonstrated uncommon common sense?

Has your dog ever shown cleverness or trickiness in getting its needs met, or in any other way?

Has your dog ever problem-solved in creative ways?

Has your dog ever thought its actions through?

Has your dog ever understood every word you said, even the ones you didn’t teach it, to accomplish your request?

Has your dog ever concocted interesting ways, demonstrating intelligence, to keep itself amused?

Has your dog ever easily outwitted you, or another pet?

Has your dog ever known what you needed before you did?

Does your dog have an amazing internal clock, or a sense of geography/location?

Is your dog an escape artist extraordinaire?

You get the idea.

There is no limit to the number of stories you can submit. Just write from the heart to tell your tale.  If your submission is selected, not only will you get to see your story in print, but you’ll also get to have both your and your dog’s name included at the top of your story.

So get crackin’ and email your stories to me at “Karen at Karen Shanley dot com,” with “Smart Dog” in the subject line. If I think I can use your story, I’ll be in touch with further details.

Please feel free to copy and cross post to dog lists and dog friends.

Thanks!


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A Day in the Life of a Dog Writer

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I have the honor of guest blogging over at  Paw-Talk today. If you’d like to take a peek at a typical day around here, head on over to get the scoop.

Even if you feel you already know quite enough about our gang, if you love animals, you’ll be in for a treat if you visit.

Paw-Talk began in 2001 as a forum devoted to all animals, where you could find lots of great information for just about any pet commonly kept.  Over the years, it has blossomed into a full-fledged animal resource site, offering great articles, product reviews, health information, thought-provoking blog posts, and a gallery of terrific photos.

If you love animals, you’ll love Paw-Talk.

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Season of Rebirth

What I love most about April is its promise of spring and rebirth. Even its holidays are days that offer cause for laughter and joyous celebration.

For those of us dealing with wintry climates, April ushers in excitement for all that is sunny, warm, and green.  Winter coats get packed away, windows get thrown open, and fresh air and sunlight on our skin is the order of the day.

Okay, maybe I exaggerated just a tad on the sunlight on skin thing — today, it’s overcast with cold winds blowing, and the temp is hovering around 39 degrees.  But that’s exactly my point. April brings hope and optimism, and a chance for new beginnings.

Just have a look for yourself!

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Lilac buds

peonies

Peonies

herbs

Herbs

seedling-transplants

Seedlings

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And last, but never ever least, GARLIC!


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One For the Book

As I continue to collect amazing stories about dogs showing their smarts, I’d like to share the occasional one with you.  I’ve selected this story because it speaks volumes on so many levels.  See if you agree.

~This story came to me from Margo Seamus in Washington

The Ground Beneath Her Feet

I have two Keeshonds: Apollo, who I got when he was a puppy, and Keesha, who came to us from Rescue when she was a bit older. While Apollo was a very agile and easygoing dog, Keesha arrived with a number of issues, one of which included feeling nervous on linoleum floors, as well as any other surfaces that she didn’t feel confident about being on.

One morning when I was putting clean clothes away in the closet, Apollo had jumped on the bed. Keesha, liking to be both near me and Apollo, whom she adored, jumped on the bed as well. I should mention at this point that I had a waterbed.

Since she’d never been on the bed before, she didn’t realize what kind of surface it was.  As the mattress began undulating under her feet, she became petrified. Not knowing what else to do, she froze and looked to Apollo for help.

As Apollo did not have any issues with stability, he could easily jump on and off the unsteady bed surface with no trouble. But when he realized that Keesha was terrified, paralyzed in place, he did the most amazing thing I think I’ve ever seen a dog do.

He looked at her, and instead of jumping off the bed, he walked to the large cedar chest at the food of the bed (which was at the same height as the bed), looked again at Keesha, and then stepped onto it before jumping off to the floor.

Poor thing, Keesha was still on the water bed, scared out of her wits and not moving a muscle. Apollo saw this, jumped back on the bed, looked at Keesha again, almost as if to encourage her and teach her. Then he walked from the bed to the cedar chest again, looked back at Keesha, and then jumped back off the bed.  He did this one more time because she still hadn’t moved.  (Meanwhile, I just stood watching this whole thing with great fascination and extreme love for Apollo).

Once more, he looked at Keesha as he stood next to her on the bed, walked to the cedar chest, looked at her again and just waited there.  She slowly walked to him, and followed him onto the cedar chest.

Realizing that she was back on stable ground, she stood there for a minute to collect herself. Then Apollo jumped off and looked back at her.  She jumped off the bed after him, and was finally back where she knew she was safe on the carpeted bedroom floor. Her relief was palpable.

I have to say this is one of the most remarkable things I’ve ever seen any of my dogs do. Apollo was truly an amazing dog and an incredible companion.  There are other stories about him, but I think this one really beats them all and also speaks volumes about how animals communicate with each other.

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What do you think?

It’s been one of those “one for the record books” weeks. I won’t trouble you with all the details, except to say that if your loved ones surround you in one piece, remember to hug them tight tonight.

As for me, this week I got to see exactly how much I’ve been living in LaLa Land. (This is the part where I’d really appreciate your feedback.)

I’ve mentioned previously about how I’ve always felt very comfortable leaving Cait alone in the house if I needed to run out for a quick errand. One, because Cait and I have had dozens of very pointed conversations about “stranger danger” over the years. And we’d participated in a school program about how to keep yourself safe, both on the internet, and out and about the town. We’d even practiced what she’d do if someone she didn’t know tried to approach her for “help,” etc. And, two, because I knew that with Kiera by her side, no one would ever be able to get into the house, never mind near her person. Of that I was absolutely certain. And, three, because I never leave the house without reminding her not to answer the phone or the door when I’m not home.

Lest you think me a tad paranoid, let me share a few wonderful tales from my days of  living in New York City. First, there was the time I was minding my own business walking down 57th St in broad daylight, when I noticed people running away from me. Before I really had time to process the oddness of that, I heard a pop–like a flat tire blowout– and felt a wet splash on my back shoulder. I turned around to see that the police had just shot an escaped criminal, who was running to grab me. The wet on my shoulder was his blood splatter.  There was also the time I had my house broken into — when I was in the house, alone. And then there was the time that a guy with a knife tried to jump me in a parking garage.  I turn into a world class sprinter when I get scared, which is what saved me that time.

There are more stories I could share, but the point is that “stranger danger” and I have been on an intimate first name basis going way back. That’s why it has been so important for me to educate my daughter (without trying to scare the begeezus out of her).

So, imagine my surprise when Andrew and I had to run out (literally, only for ten minutes) to go vote, only to return home to hear that a stranger had stopped at our house. Our house, which has no nearby neighbors. Our house, at night. Our house, with no adults home.

Seeing that Cait was none the worse for wear, I assumed that she’d handled the matter as she’d been instructed a hundred times. But just to be sure, I asked her what she did.

Are you ready…?

She locked Kiera in the kitchen!!!!  And went and answered the door!!!!!!!!!  Even after seeing that it was a strange man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

After I picked the blown pieces of my mind back up off the floor,  I learned that the guy turned out to be someone who was going door-to-door to ask people to get out and vote in a very close Congressional race.

So, no big deal, right? All’s well that end’s well and all that good stuff, right?

Since that night, I’ve been turning it all over in my mind. And my thinking goes something like this: I hate that we live in a world where I feel I have to teach my daughter to fear anything. Yes, I can rationalize it and couch it in less awful terms — like I’m just teaching her to be smart, to be aware, to pay attention, to be alert.  Blah-bity-blah-blah-blah. But, when you boil it down, I’m teaching her to be afraid.

I hate that.

And what good does it do? For all my efforts, she STILL opened the damned door! AFTER LOCKING KIERA IN THE KITCHEN!!!

Sorry, it’s going to take me a while to get over that.

So back to the fear thing.  I’m about as street smart a person as you’ll meet. You want to go uptown to Harlem? I’m the girl you want to have with you. Down to Chinatown or the Lower East Side– yep, you want me along.  But all those street smarts did nothing for me in the circumstances I mentioned above. Because, no matter how well we think we’re prepared, sometimes life just happens.

That, taken with the fact that we now live in about low-crime a community as you can find, do I want to keep reinforcing the message of  “stranger danger?” Is there a better, “healthier” tact to be taken? How can I also teach my daughter to be her brothers’ and sisters’ keeper, if  most of those “brothers and sisters” are strangers? These are the questions I’m asking myself.

These are the questions I’d like to ask you.

What has been your approach to this subject? What has worked and not worked for you?

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Extreme Sheep LED Art — You Won’t Believe Your Eyes!

What do you get with a herd of sheep, some LED lights, a few highly trained sheepdog and some rather imaginative Welsh shepherds? You won’t believe your eyes! Really. You won’t. (Make sure you stay for the fireworks.)

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“We took to the hills of Wales armed to the teeth with sheep, LEDs and a camera, to create a huge amazing LED display.”

I’d say yeah, and then some.

Go here to watch an interview with the shepherds on BBC, if you’d like to hear more about how they did it. The shepherds claim it was “good dogs and good sheep”, not computer trickery.

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If This Dog…

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… could figure out how to crawl inside her skin to be that much closer, I’ve no doubt he would!

This is how the two of them sleep every night. Face to face. Breath to breath. Heartbeat to heartbeat.

It’s a love like no other. And I can’t believe that Cait has finally found it. It’s been a long time coming. So long, in fact, that I wondered if she’d ever get to have the experience.

All it took was the right dog.

Thanks little guy.

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Crash Course on How to Submit a Manuscript

I am often asked for help on how to go about submitting a book to publishers. In an attempt to simplify the process of passing along useful information, following is a crash course on how and to whom you should submit your manuscript.  Consider it a nitty-gritty action plan.

First things first, submitting your work is no small undertaking. Truth be told, writing the book is the easier part. This next step is the daunting one. I don’t say that to discourage you, but to help plant your feet in reality. Plain and simple — statistically, a would-be actor winning an acting role has better odds than a would-be writer getting published.

For those of you who are still reading, let’s get down to how you can turn many of those odds around.

1. Properly format your manuscript. (See starred books below.) Submitting a professional looking manuscript goes a long way toward getting an agent or a publisher to take you seriously.

2. Have somebody else proof-read your work. Even if you have to pay someone. Seriously. Nothing irritates editors more than grammatical errors and typos.

3. Research both agents and publishers who represent your genre. (See starred books below.) Too many writers don’t bother to do their homework here and wind up submitting to the wrong persons, which is a waste of everyone’s time — and marks you as an amateur. You can quickly find a list of the correct agents and publishers by looking in the back of Writer’s Market and Guide to Literary Agents, under the index of your genre.

4. Write a killer query letter. ( See starred books below.) All agents and editors require that you send a query letter first. A well-crafted query letter is your first, best, and only shot for getting someone to take an interest in you. If you don’t write well enough to get your foot in the door here, no agent or publisher is going to bother looking at your proposal — never mind your manuscript — no matter how fabulous they may be. If you’re serious about getting published, the single-most important step you can take is to get the query letter right.

5. Prepare an impressive proposal. (See starred books below.) Take your time and be thorough, especially with the marketing analysis (who’s going to buy your book and why, and how you’re going to promote it) and the book comps (what makes your book different from similar books already published). Be professional with your bio. Cutesy is the kiss of death. If you’re writing non-fiction, and you’re honestly able to position yourself as an expert, so much the better.

6. Once you’ve got your query letter and proposal as perfect as you can get them, and you’ve compiled a list of appropriate agents and publishers, now you want to research the submission guidelines. You can either find this in Writer’s Market or on their web sites. Do NOT submit anything more (or less) than what they ask for.

7. Create a contact sheet that lists names and addresses of all the agents and small publishing houses (large houses do not accept unagented submissions) to which you plan on submitting. Call each place and check with the secretary (do not ask to speak with the agent or editor) to make sure you have the correct spelling of the agent’s or editor’s name, that they are still the right person for handling your genre, and that you have the correct address.

8. Submit to your entire list of both agents and small publishing houses simultaneously. Preferably you want to land an agent first. But if you get a publisher interested in your book, use that acceptance to go get yourself an agent. Unless you only plan on writing one book, in which case it doesn’t matter. If you hope to publish again, get yourself an agent.

A Writer’s Library — Must Have Resources

Here are a list of books that will help you figure out how to get your book into the right hands. Starred books are must-haves. The rest are worthwhile reads but not critical. Click on the book covers to be taken to Amazon.

***Writer’s Market 2009

***Guide to Literary Agents 2009

How to Get a Literary Agent


Jeff Herman’s Guide to Publishers, Editors & Literary Agents



Good books on how to format manuscripts, and write query letters and proposals:

***Formatting and Submitting Your Manuscript

***Book Proposals That Sell


***How to Write Attention-Grabbing Query & Cover Letters


Write the Perfect Book Proposal

Thinking Like Your Editor



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Rate Your Dog Food. Does Your Brand Get an A or an F?

Is your dog food cutting the mustard?

We all want to make sure our dogs are getting healthy, safe foods. Especially with the many pet food problems that continue to claim lives. (To keep abreast of the latest news, Therese at PetSitUSA does a fantastic job of posting up-to-date facts on pet food recalls.) It can be hard to sift through all the advertising and positioning. With that in mind, I offer the following chart and quiz to help you sort the wheat from the chaff, literally.

Here are some foods that have already been scored.

If your dog food is not listed in this chart, keep reading. There is a quiz at the end to help you calculate its score.

Brand/Formula

Score

Grade

Merrick Wilderness Blend

127

A+

Nature’s Variety Raw Instinct

122

A+

Innova Large Breed Puppy

122

A+

Dick Van Patten’s Natural Balance Ultra Premium

122

A+

Timberwolf Organics Wild & Natural Dry

120

A+

Nature’s Recipe Healthy Skin Venison and Rice

116

A+

Authority Harvest Baked

116

A+

Chicken Soup Senior

115

A+

Innova Evo

114

A+

Innova Dog

114

A+

Artemis Large/Medium Breed Puppy

114

A+

Canidae

112

A+

Wellness Super5 Mix Chicken

110

A+

Kirkland Signature Chicken, Rice, and Vegetables

110

A+

Premium Edge Chicken, Rice and Vegetables Adult Dry

109

A+

Burns Chicken and Brown Rice

107

A+

Royal Canin Natural Blend Adult

106

A+

Foundations

106

A+

Dick Van Patten’s Duck and Potato

106

A+

Dick Van Patten’s Natural Balance Venison and Brown Rice

106

A+

Blue Buffalo Chicken and Rice

106

A+

Nutro Ultra Adult

104

A+

Royal Canin Boxer

103

A+

ProPlan Natural Turkey & Barley

103

A+

EaglePack Holistic

102

A+

Nutro Natural Choice Oatmeal

101

A+

Nutrience Junior Medium Breed Puppy

101

A+

Flint River Senior

101

A+

Beowulf Back to Basics

101

A+

Royal Canin Bulldog

100

A+

Nature’s Recipe

100

A

Summit

99

A

Solid Gold

99

A

Diamond Large Breed 60+ Formula

99

A

Nutro Natural Choice Large Breed Lamb and Rice Puppy

98

A

Nutro Natural Choice Lamb and Rice

98

A

Wolfking Adult Dog (bison) by Solid Gold

97

A

Sensible Choice Chicken and Rice

97

A

Nutro Natural Choice Senior

95

A

Pro Plan Sensitive Stomach

94

A

Nutro Max Adult

93

B

Hund-n-Flocken Adult Dog (lamb) by Solid Gold

93

B

Authority Harvest Baked Less Active

93

B

Diamond Lamb Meal & Rice

92

B

Nutro Natural Choice Large Breed Puppy

87

B

Nutrisource Lamb and Rice

87

B

Nutro Natural Choice Puppy Wheat Free

86

B

Diamond Performance

85

C

Member’Mark Chicken and Rice

84

C

Blackwood 3000 Lamb and Rice

83

C

Nutra Nuggets Super Premium Lamb Meal and Rice

81

C

Eukanuba Adult

81

C

Alpo Prime Cuts

81

C

Pro Nature Puppy

80

C

Eukanuba Puppy

79

C

Iams Lamb Meal & Rice Formula Premium

73

D

Science Diet for Large Breed Puppies

69

F

Bil-Jac Select

68

F

Diamond Maintenance

64

F

Science Diet Advanced Protein Senior 7+

63

F

Purina One Large Breed Puppy

62

F

Purina Dog

62

F

Pet Gold Adult with Lamb & Rice

23

F

Purina Beneful

17

F

Purina Come-n-Get It

16

F

*How to grade your dog’s kibble (dry food): Start with a grade of 100, then:

  • For every listing of “by-product“, subtract 10 points
  • For every non-specific animal source (“meat” or “poultry”, meat, meal or fat) reference, subtract 10 points
  • If the food contains BHA, BHT, or ethoxyquin, subtract 10 points
  • For every grain “mill run” or non-specific grain source, subtract 5 points
  • If the same grain ingredient is used 2 or more times in the first five ingredients (i.e. “ground brown rice”, “brewers rice”, “rice flour” are all the same grain), subtract 5 points
  • If the protein sources are not meat meal and there are less than 2 meats in the top 3 ingredients, subtract 3 points
  • If it contains any artificial colorants, subtract 3 points
  • If it contains ground corn or whole grain corn, subtract 3points
  • If corn is listed in the top 5 ingredients, subtract 2 more points
  • If the food contains any animal fat other than fish oil, subtract 2 points
  • If lamb is the only animal protein source (unless your dog is allergic to other protein sources), subtract 2 points
  • If it contains soy or soybeans, subtract 2 points
  • If it contains wheat (unless you know that your dog is not allergic to wheat), subtract 2 points
  • If it contains beef (unless you know that your dog is not allergic to beef), subtract 1 point
  • If it contains salt (sodium chloride), subtract 1 point

Extra Credit:

  • If any of the meat sources are organic, add 5 points
  • If the food is endorsed by any major breed group or nutritionist, add 5 points
  • If the food is baked not extruded, add 5 points
  • If the food contains probiotics, add 3 points
  • If the food contains fruit, add 3 points
  • If the food contains vegetables (NOT corn or other grains), add 3 points
  • If the animal sources are hormone-free and antibiotic-free, add 2 points
  • If the food contains barley, add 2 points
  • If the food contains flax seed oil (not just the seeds), add 2 points
  • If the food contains oats or oatmeal, add 1 point
  • If the food contains sunflower oil, add 1 point
  • For every different specific animal protein source (other than the first one; count “chicken” and “chicken meal” as only one protein source, but “chicken” and “” as 2 different sources), add 1 point
  • If it contains glucosamine and chondroitin, add 1 point
  • If the vegetables have been tested for pesticides and are pesticide-free, add 1 point

Scoring:

  • 94-100+ = A
  • 86-93 = B
  • 78-85 = C
  • 70-77 = D
  • 69 and below = F

[*I am not able to give proper credit because the original author has been lost. If you know who came up with it, or if you have scores to add, please let me know.]

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Follow the Bouncing Ball

With all the various projects and work stuff clamoring to get done, I’m starting to feel like the proverbial bouncing ball.

Boing! Talk to this client. Boing! Get that paperwork done! Boing! Add this idea to the to-do list. Boing! Research that article and get quotes. Boing! Meet this deadline. Boing! Boing! Boing!

In the course of all my boing-ing around, I’ve run across some items I thought you might find interesting. For your enjoyment, in no particular order:

Suzanne Clothier, one of the best dog trainers in the country, and certainly one of the most original thinkers in the dog world, has started a blog. If you like your dog news served up in a funny, erudite style, go have a look. You’ll be glad you did.

If you have a daughter, you should have her watch this. (Thanks to Holly over at DogsNHorses for the find.)

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Another great source for excellent dog training tips via numerous free articles and videos is Ian Dunbar’s DogSTAR site.

If you’re interested in creativity and the plight of education, have a listen to this talk by Sir Ken Robinson. He makes an entertaining and profoundly moving case for creating an education system that nurtures (rather than undermines) creativity. It’ll be the best 20 minutes you’ll spend all week. I promise.

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And while I’m at it, if you like listening to leading edge thinkers, you’ll really enjoy the speakers who participated in the TED Conference.

potato-masher1 Having recently placed the last of my seed orders, I came across this potato masher in my Seeds of Change catalog. If you grow potatoes or your family loves mashed potatoes, this design is, bar none, the absolute best for the job. I’ve been looking for this style for ages. The old-time version I stole from my grandmother many moons ago (not really, she gave it to me) had finally broken. Unlike this entire stainless steel construction, mine had a wooden handle that finally cracked after 60 years. So I treated myself, and I expect it will last long enough for my future granddaughter to be able to steal it from me. You can find them at most good kitchen stores, but Seeds of Change had the lowest price I could find.

Have fun!

As well, if you’ve come across any treasures in your web travels, please share.

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Cautionary Tale

hackedAnyone who’s visited my blog over the past few days has been greeted with a big, bold “404 Not Found” message. The equivalent of the blue screen of death for a blogger.

In case you’re wondering what happened, my site got hacked. I had a couple of days where it looked like I’d lost the whole kit and caboodle. Very exciting. Just not the kind of excitement I’m looking for.

I was relatively lucky, because I’d recently backed up. It still took me three days to piece everything back together.  I only lost a few posts and/or their comments. Not the end of the world, for sure.

In a not always “all’s well that ends well” world, please benefit from my agida and use it as a cautionary tale. If you haven’t backed up your site recently, DO IT NOW. And if you aren’t on the latest version of your blog platform, UPGRADE NOW.

Over and out, and getting away from this #(&^&(@* computer for a while.

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Honesty, the Best Policy (Honest Scrap Award)

Joan and her 6 Labs from over at LabTails have tagged us with the Honest Scrap Award! As Joan says, say “Honest Scrap” five times fast and you’ll get the idea… : )

Thank you Joan and Labs -  Ridge, Elsie, Keynya, Pinot, Tuc, and Rudy! We’re honored to be included.

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Here are the particulars:

“When accepting this auspicious award, you must write a post bragging about it, including the name of the misguided soul who thinks you deserve such acclaim, and link back to said person so everyone knows he or she is real. Choose a minimum of seven (7) blogs that you find brilliant in content or design. Or improvise by including bloggers who have no idea who you are because you don’t have seven (7) friends. Show the seven (7) random victims’ names and links and leave a comment informing them that they were prized with “Honest Weblog”. Well, there’s no prize, really, but they can keep the nifty icon. Next, in your blog, list at least ten honest things about yourself. Then, pass it on!”

In other words, all chosen for this “esteemed” award should list a few honest facts (scraps — short truths) about themselves. Final instructions include “have fun” and “keep it real.”

Here’s my gang’s list:

  1. Since Wink’s arrival, Kiera has become much more playful. Wink seems to have made it his job to help keep Kiera young. They are hysterical to watch together.
  2. If I let Graidy, I think he would bark non-stop all day, or until he lost his voice. Which ever came first. Being able to work from a home-office is a godsend. That means I’m around enough to help him redirect that alerting energy. I’m also blessed with neighbors who love our dogs.
  3. Finn has finally figured out how to get out of our fenced area.  And I’m okay with that. I’ve done all I can to keep him safe, and I can’t in good conscience keep him indoors against his will. His destiny is his own now.
  4. Cait has been taking Wink for Obedience training. She’s turning out to be a great dog-mom, and she’s doing a fantastic job with her boy. It helps that he adores her and is a quick study.
  5. I have to say that, while I love Wink to pieces and am very glad he’s here, having three dogs is a handful. I don’t know how you people with 5, 6, 7 dogs do it! Two is the perfect number for me.
  6. [Gross-out alert] Wink and Graidy love to lick any face they can reach. Wink and Graidy also love to eat poop. Kiera does not care to lick faces; if you get a kiss from her, that’s pretty special. Kiera does not eat poop. If you come to our house, work hard to make sure the kisses you get are from Kiera.
  7. While Andrew complains about winter and bundles up like an Eskimo, I walk around all winter without a coat on. I love the cold.
  8. Having said that, I’m ready for the weather to start warming up so I can look forward to another season of gardening.
  9. At the moment, I’m obsessed with this guy’s piano music. If I didn’t have so much on my plate, I’d spend all day playing his songs on my piano.
  10. And I’m having a blast working on my “Smart Dog” book. I love getting to have the experience of seeing that so many other people love and enjoy — and are amused by — their dogs as much as I am.  I also love working on such a funny, feel-good project.  By the end of the day, my cheeks hurt from smiling so much.  I’m thinking of making this a prerequisite for all future projects — cheeks must hurt from too much smiling.

Okay, that’s it for us. Now, I know this only calls for 7 victims, but I didn’t want to leave anybody out so we’re going to tag:

1. Therese at PetSit USA

2. Deb at G’s Cottage

3. Nita and her gang at Throwback at Trapper Creek

4. Mary Alice over at From the Frontlines

5. Meredith at Poppy Fields

6. Caffienated Cowgirl over at  But Do They Have Coffee

7. Lynn at Animal Ovation

8. Sarah at Teetotaled

9. Nutmeg at Simply Nutmeg

10. Linda up in Just Another Day on the Prairie

11. edj all the way over at Planet Nomad

and last but not least

12. YOU. If you’re in need of a post idea, feel free to join in the fun.

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Is It Me, Or Is There Only Weird Stuff in the Fridge?

For the tenth time, Andrew opened the refrigerator, hoping that something “good” would magically materialize.  For the tenth time, when no miracle occurred and the exact same food stared back at him, he finally exclaimed, “Is it me, or is there only weird stuff in here?”

Because I hate grocery shopping even more than I hate cleaning toilets, I’ve been known to prolong going to the store for as long as is humanly possible, or until no one can stand to eat legumes and rice for one more night — whichever comes first.

But it wasn’t an empty fridge that caused Andrew’s distress. In fact, the fridge was full to bursting. With items like  collard greens and kohlrabi and daikon radishes. And other inedible items, according to Andrew.

To add injury to insult, there was no grab-and-go food, like the usual cut-up veggies or sandwich stuff. There was no room.

So, is this some sort of weird new diet I’ve put my family on?

I guess you could say that. In a manner of speaking…

You see, I’m testing new veggies in new recipes.

Why?

Well, because these are sitting on my desk and I need to place an order in the next few days.

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And since I’m expanding my garden again this year, I’ll have more room to add a more diverse selection. But before I take up garden space with food only I’ll eat, I’m better off testing it on the whole family first. So far, I’ve crossed off six vegetables from my list and added five. Not bad.

While Andrew may not feel that the current food in our fridge is magical, I tell you my seed catalogs are absolutely entrancing. After a winter of weekly snow storms, I go to bed leafing through my seed catalogs and fall asleep dreaming of all the wonderful, weird stuff I’m going to get to grow this Spring. I can’t wait!

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Ree “The Pioneer Woman” Drummond vs. Heather “Dooce” Armstrong

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From the Mailbag:  Emma writes: I don’t get it. I read lots of blogs from the “famous” Dooce  (who’s a little too, I dunno, b*tchy for my tastes), and now Pioneer Woman (who seems like a lightweight one-trick pony/cow), to obscure blogs on personal subjects that interest me. And I gotta tell ya, I think some of the more unknown ones are much better written and much more interesting. I’m wondering why you think some blogs that aren’t particularly well-written make it to the top when others that are better don’t? And do you read the only two mom blogs in the Top 100, The Pioneer Woman and Dooce? Do you like either of them? I notice neither are in your blog roll. If you were to compare/contrast them, what’s your take as to why they’re at the top?

Dear Emma, there are all kinds of reasons why some blogs break out of the pack and land at the top while other lesser-known, equally worthy blogs don’t find fame. And I agree that it’s a shame that so many wonderfully written blogs languish in anonymity. But that’s just the way the  cookie crumbles. That’s why I like exploring bloggers’ blog rolls as a way to discover hidden talent. But then I’ve always been one to head off the beaten path.

Most of the really successful blogs get there through a combination of circumstances. They pick a hot niche, put in the hard work, and then get a helping hand from somebody else who’s already “famous.” And a heavy dose of dumb luck never hurts — the proverbial “being at the right place at the right time.”

Regarding the two blogs you mention, Dooce and The Pioneer Woman, I believe they started off with a small, loyal following before getting a turbo boost from another famous blog/award that gave them instant mass exposure. But, rest assured, they wouldn’t stay at the top if large numbers of people didn’t continue to enjoy them.

I’ve tried giving them both a spin at various times but I haven’t been able to stay with either for different reasons (which is why I haven’t added them to my blog roll). So my observations certainly aren’t the final word on either of them. That said, it’s not hard for me to see why they’ve both struck a chord with large audiences.

If I were to compare/contrast them, I’d have to say that both profess to love their husbands, kids, and dogs, both hate being told what to do, both have become good photographers, both are funny, both are attractive with attractive spouses and kids, and both spent some time in LA way back when.  That’s about where the similarities end.

Dooce has more of an edgy, take-no-prisoners feel, with a fairly self-revealing look at her emotional life as a wife, mother, and (ex?) Mormon. Pioneer Woman has a more light-hearted, breezy, self-deprecating style; she doesn’t tread into very deep emotional waters. I suspect that’s why she strikes you, to use your words, as a one trick pony–she keeps the life she shares with her readers very uncomplicated.

Another significant contrast is that Pioneer Woman seems to genuinely like and include her readers/commenters. She invites their questions and opinions. Dooce seems to have more of a prickly love/hate thing going on with her contingent.

Visiting The Pioneer Woman can feel like a trip to Disney World where, on the surface, everything is nearly perfect, life is grrrrrreat!, everyone is happy and doin’ their thang, there are plenty of rides (both 4-legged and 4-wheeling) — and, if you visit regularly, you’ll be rewarded with a generous flow of give-aways and prizes. You’ll see many photos of a working cattle ranch, including calves being castrated, tagged, and branded, and cows with a vet’s arm up their nether regions being “preg-tested,” and you’ll see lots of gorgeous open plains.

Visiting Dooce feels like a cross between a Seinfeld episode and a Reality show. Especially now that she’s pregnant with her second child after just recently adding a second dog. All this, by her own admission, while she’s dealing with a very obstinate and difficult first child, and managing to keep her clinical depression at bay with the right meds. Such is the stuff that makes up the fodder that fuels her blog. She’s complicated and messy, like real life. She’s often reflective and insightful. And, just as often, laugh-out-loud funny.

What is it about each of them I like, and why did I ultimately move on?

I love Pioneer Woman’s photos of the land; I can feel my lungs expanding just by looking at them. I also think Ree is a hoot and I appreciate her upbeat attitude.  I moved on because, being the sap about animals that I am, it’s hard for me to watch how their cattle are treated. Yes, that’s her Reality Show, and yes, I eat meat. But I buy it from a farmer I know who raises his few cows from birth to death on his own farm, and he humanely kills them himself . There’s no rough handing, no hideously smelling, overcrowded “finishing” grain lot, and no terrifying trip to the slaughter house. Nothing personal Pioneer Woman.

I appreciate Dooce for her honesty and fearlessness. And she can string words together and twist them into side-splittingly funny riffs like nobody’s business. While Pioneer Woman has a “don’t rock the boat” philosophy, on that same boat, Dooce runs from side-to-side to see if she can get it to tip over. In other words, she doesn’t shy away from controversy. She also loves her dogs like family. I moved on because, as a life coach and writer, I get enough of hard-hitting reality during every working day, so that’s not really how I’m looking to unwind with what little free time I have. Nothing personal Dooce.

So, dear reader, if you read Pioneer Woman and Dooce, to what do you attribute their success? What do you like and not like about their blogs? And, lastly, since I’m always on a treasure hunt, what’s your favorite non-famous blog and why?

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